Okay, I mean that totally tongue in cheek. Some of my best friends are 'type A' and I adore them.
Actually I have a problem in that I'm very attracted to over achievers. I think I have an over achiever's heart. I was a straight A student when I was like 14-15, but when I was 16 I got depressed and basically that's what I've realized: when I try to hard to achieve, I lose it. So I'm not a 'type A'. If I "strive for excellence" always, I have nothing left to actually be excellent.
Christians often use verses like this one to basically say that if something isn't pinterest perfect it's not pleasing to God:
"So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
- 1 Corinthians 10:31
There's pressure in that: God is perfect. If I do something, and it's not perfect, how can it glorify God?
And I think that when someone is pleased with humble doings, other Christians will look down their nose at them, that they're not doing something 'excellent.' They steal joy, and that's what I mean by ruin everything.
This is especially true among Christian women.
But you know what? God is God and God knew we'd do that. That's why He gave us the following story:
Now, I know we can find God in the mundane (I love Brother Lawrence.) But God included that story for a reason. I honestly think most of the women movers and shakers in church are Marthas and they have, I've witnessed and experienced, discourage the Marys.
Now Jesus wasn't saying that the 'preparations' weren't important. But learning from Jesus is most important.
It's okay if your house is messy if your spirit is ordered.
I feel like the Marthas would respond: you can have a clean house and an ordered spirit. Well, some people can. But sometimes, you can't. We have 24 hours in any day, and you need sleep. Sometimes, you really can't have a clean house and an ordered spirit. And one is more important.
It's okay if you take time to complete a project, or even realize you need to drop it for a while, if you are investing your time in things that are eternal. What's eternal? God, and people. Period. Go back to the most important commandments: Love God. Love People. Also, the new commandment: Love your brothers and sisters in Christ.
Nothing else has eternal value.
Yes, the Bible says:
"You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect."
But there's two points: it says "be" perfect, not "do perfect things." There is a MAJOR difference in being and doing. God wants us to be, not just do. If you don't understand, ask God to teach you more.
And secondly, you need context. That verse in context:
That verse isn't about doing perfect things at all. It's a reflection on loving others, on not showing favoritism and only being nice to people you like. That is being perfect. Loving is being perfect.
So don't let the pinterest Type As get you down.
Choose the more important.
It won't be taken from you.